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the unfolding.

we didn’t come to earth to be comfortable. we came to earth to grow. everything grows. even the days grow; the construct we use to make sense of everything, it grows. did you notice we have weather down here? that weather is a thing? weather just means, “someone’s not gonna like it.” weather wouldn’t be a thing if we all liked it; if it was always comfortable.

what does it mean to make everything the best thing that ever happened to you? it means: instead of trying to change the other person or situation, you use your energy to change yourself. it means: be creative. create a version of you that hasn’t existed before.

things happen that dredge up big feelings of pain and resistance. what will you do with that energy? will you use it to create a new version of yourself? or will you use it to fight them? fight it? fight everyone? when you choose yourself, you only have to fight one battle, and then it’s done. you can live. but if you want to fight everything and everyone, you’ll never finish. it won’t end. they outnumber you by design. but you should do what you want. there is no wrong answer. either way, you will start to realize that what you want, the gap, distance you want closed, the progress you desire, is the internal one.

some people like to garden. let them remind you that we each were planted into the soil of this earth, into this darkness, so that we could find our way into the light, to blossom, bloom and die. the perfection is in the process. there are no outcomes other than death; until then, it’s just us + these invitations to witness and participate in the unfolding.